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Try to be on time, but if you arrive late or must leave early minimize your impact on the community by being mindful of your movements. That is the real yoga. A few suggestions:
If you’re late, enter the studio quietly, as ready for class as possible. Unravel your mat outside the door, change your clothes in your car, take a few centering breaths before you enter. If the class is in meditation or in the midst of a talk, sit quietly by the side of the room until it’s appropriate to find a space. In spite of certain thoughts you might have, know you are always welcome. Sometimes we can't be on time, or our work/life schedule forces us to be late but consistently arriving late for class shows a lack of respect for the community and wrecks havoc with your nervous system. Make that your practice.
Refrain from using perfume. When I first began teaching there was one student who smelled as if she was attacked by the aromatherapy bandit. For weeks I debated whether to say anything and when I finally did, she listened, smiled ... and I’ve never seen her since. Anything that criticizes our image and hygeine are sensitive topics. Compassion underscores our practice. What may smell very nice to you may feel like an olfactory assault to someone else. In a confined space like a yoga class where the focus is on our breath, keeping the air clear is essential. The smell of sweat is normal. Let’s learn to enjoy it.
If you bring water, be mindful where the bottle is, how and when you open it. I am amazed when students decide in the middle of shavasana to snap open their water bottles and take a loud gurgling slug. The poses we do are designed to build internal heat (tapas), creating a crucible for physical and spiritual transformation to occur. Most everyone would benefit from drinking more pure, preferably distilled water, but during class is not the optimum time to quench one's thirst.
There’s tremendous latitude to explore poses in class, however during shavasana we join together in svadhyaya silent, uninterrupted self-observation. We can’t turn off the outside world of voices and car horns. We can’t help on occasion falling asleep and snoring. Those interrruptions become part of our meditation, allowing us to grow our capacity to accept what’s happening. We can, however, choose not to shuffle around, or decide, hey, a backbend might feel nice right now, or hum a show tune.
If you know you must leave early, leave before shavasana instead of in the middle and have your clothes and belongings ready to exit. Put your shoes on outside.
 Unless you're a doctor or midwife there's no reason to bring your cell phone to class. If we can't be out of touch with the world for two hours than that in itself is valuable information to meditate upon. More importantly, if your cell phone starts ringing PLEASE ANSWER IT. Letting it ring to avoid embarrasment is a clear non-acceptance of what is happening. Making a mistake is normal; not taking responsibility for it creates suffering.
If you sweat, bring a towel.
No hard liquor during class. Beer and wine only.
No rules are necessary, really, if we infuse into every gesture kindness, consideration and compassion.
 Eat Your Heart Open
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